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Managing RSVPs and Guest Lists
How to track responses and follow up gracefully.
In9Months Team
Tracking RSVPs prevents headaches. Here's how to stay organized.
Set a Clear Deadline
3 weeks before the shower. This gives you time to finalize food orders and seating.
How to Track
- Spreadsheet with name, RSVP status, dietary restrictions, contact info
- Digital invitation platforms (Paperless Post, Evite) track automatically
- Physical invitations: create a simple checklist
Following Up
One week after the deadline, reach out to non-responders. A quick text: "Hey! Just confirming if you can make [Name]'s shower on [date]. Need a final headcount!"
Plan for No-Shows
Expect 10-15% of "yes" responses to not show up. Plan food accordingly.