Virtual Baby Shower Etiquette for Guests

Virtual showers are here to stay. Here's how to be a great guest when celebrating over Zoom.

Before the Shower

• RSVP promptly: Hosts need an accurate headcount for shower boxes
• Test your setup: Check camera, audio, and internet connection
• Order gifts early: Shipping delays happen — order 2 weeks in advance
• Confirm address: Make sure gifts ship to the correct address

During the Shower

• Join on time: 5 minutes early is ideal
• Mute when not talking: Eliminates background noise
• Turn on your camera: It's more personal and engaging
• Dress for the occasion: Not formal, but presentable from the waist up
• Good lighting: Face a window or use a lamp — don't be a dark silhouette
• Stay engaged: Don't multitask. The host can tell.

Participation Tips

• Use chat for comments that don't need voice
• Unmute when invited to share well-wishes
• Play games enthusiastically (it's awkward when no one participates)
• Use reactions (clap, heart) when appropriate

Gift Logistics

• Ship gifts directly to the parents
• Include a gift note with your name
• Send a screenshot of the order confirmation if parents will open gifts live