How to Pull Off a Surprise Baby Shower

Surprise showers require extra coordination. Here's how to not blow it.

Before You Commit

Make sure the expecting parent actually wants a surprise. Some people hate surprises, especially while pregnant.

Coordination Tips

• Have one person who knows the expecting parent's schedule
• Create a separate communication channel for planning
• Get registry info secretly from partner or close family
• Have a believable cover story for the event

Day-Of Logistics

• Get the expecting parent there under false pretenses (brunch with one friend, etc.)
• Have guests arrive 15-30 minutes early and hide cars if at a home
• Designate someone to text "5 minutes away"
• Don't yell too loud — pregnant women startle easily

Backup Plan

If surprise gets blown, pivot gracefully. The celebration still matters more than the surprise.